Love, Couples and Secrets
From many experiences when love couples keep away things (secrets) from each other, the relationships they have are at stake.
LOVE
Love is a strong feeling of attraction, great interest and pleasure in something (in this case someone) and deep affection.Some people get confused between love and lust. When lust is mistaken for love and ends as a couple, they never get to stay for long. Love is greater than lust. Can you believe that children never want their parents to die, No matter how big they are or how old their parents get they still keep wishing their parents many more years. That is true love.
I bet you that true love is the best feeling you want to feel, but it more than hurts when you are not loved in return. Like a mother who struggles for her child and when the child is grown he does not acknowledge his mother's struggle for him/her and instead becomes wayward towards his mum.
NB: When dealing with love you get to play a lot around a feeling TRUST.
COUPLES
A couple is made of two people consider together, associated romantically and sexually.(In terms of two people in love)Firstly, true couples are bonded by love and trust. LOVE is like a commitment, when two people say they are a couple they just declared they are one. In the bible:
MARK 10:8 ;<< and the two will become one: so they are no longer two but one flesh. >>
If God admits the two as one then secrets should not be part their relationship. Having a relationship gives you a lot of experiences. Whether young or old, rich or poor, black or white, you will need to learn and understand your partner to make your relationship the best.
I will give a brief summary on some things couples need to do so as to maintain their intimacy love and relationship:
· Care for each other
· Be patient
· Learn to say SORRY
· Share their problems
· Think positive, at times just a positive reflection will save your couple from great problems.
· Abstain from getting into other intimate relations outside theirs.(CHEATING)
· Often go out, like for picnics, dance parties, ….etc. all these will help relieve them from negative forces since they get to laugh and play together
· Abstain from SECRECY. (Will explain later below.)
SECRETS
A Secret is something that is kept and meant to be unknown by others.If you are in a relationship and you spend your time hiding things, keeping so many things to yourself and not telling your partner, you are making a GREAT mistake.
Secrets are either accepted with good reaction or bad reaction from partner. When a bad secret is revealed late or by someone else to your partner obviously you have to expect a bad reaction, it even gets worst if he discovers it himself. Few people can understand that the partner did not mean to hide anything, like I said few people because most times secrets bring anger and problems since mostly bad things are kept in secret.
The best Advice I can give for a couple is to just share everything. Secrets lead to lies, lies reduces trust when discovered and at the end the bond keeps breaking gradually like a chemical reaction.
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